How Successful People Gain and Retain Their Wealth

There is a TV show that I witnessed a couple of times that is titled, How Winning the Lottery Ruined my Life, or something to that effect.  While watching the “lucky” family discuss their travails and trials of winning such a large sum of money when they previously were considered poor or bankrupt was interesting to me. The reason for suffering from winning such large amounts of money is that the person was attempting to apply their current capabilities and philosophy of life to a much larger asset base.

Having served as an advisor to wealthy individuals for many years, it gave me perspective to understand the devastation of which the lottery winner spoke.  We all experience a stage in life that we are most comfortable.  This level of living has given us the lifestyle we feel is good, or good enough, to provide us some comforts of life.  The challenge is to understand that, as people, we must grow our philosophy toward money and wealth as we grow our lifestyle or trouble is on the horizon.

In simple terms, the person who has dominion over a few things must grow in mindset, knowledge and understanding about wealth to retain dominion over significantly more assets.  The Bible tells us that the person who has much wealth, much is expected.  That is a tremendous philosophical point about wealth.  Another statement I often use is that self-preservation leads to mediocrity while charity leads to wealth.  By giving away, in a reasonable and responsible manner, the assets you currently possess, you will receive greater assets from the marketplace.

To help you think like a wealthier individual, you should learn from those that possess great wealth.  Read biographies of Cornelius Vanderbilt, Andrew Carnegie and John D. Rockefeller.  What inspiration these men’s stories give me as I realize their generosity in developing the modern culture you and I benefit from.  Libraries, hospitals and universities all over our great country bear their names as a testament to the great blessing we possess of being American citizens.

One of the common themes I discerned from reading their biographies is that they thought differently than most people.  Their time was sacred and they didn’t waste it on trivial matters.  Most of them created, for themselves, an approach to capturing the best information to make critical decisions that contained considerable risk. To accurately describe their approach to managing their time, they eliminated, delegated or elevated activities which became their goals for success.

Many menial tasks that would arise during the day would be disregarded unless they had some relationship to the important goals set by the entrepreneur.  Business studies of behaviors inform us that most people major in minor things to the detriment of the business production they are seeking.  In simple terms, I call this “busy work”.  This type of activity has no sustained value or progress contribution toward your big goals for which you are seeking to attain.  According to Gallup, a considerable number of employees polled report they are simply disengaged from the act of contributing their skills to their employer at some point during each day.  That is startling when you realize these employers are paying significant amounts of money for training, retention and benefits for these “less than productive” employees.

Another strategy used by wealthy individuals is that they delegate tasks to others more capable or experienced in certain functions.  For example, many didn’t write or type their own letters but utilized a personal assistant.  Most of them didn’t drive themselves to destinations but used the skills of drivers and focused on their important tasks during the drive time.  Delegation is not restricted to business professionals. Many of us delegate our lawn work and flower beds to companies that specialize in such services.  Cleaning our homes and performing laundry are delegated activities for which others are most helpful.  You should be focusing on those activities that create and retain your most passionate areas of life.

Lastly, the wealthy are excellent at scaling their process for producing wealth.  They create a unique process and elevate it to capture market share or other investors.  By concentrating on your unique abilities to create value for others, you will quickly realize that a “better mousetrap” is in your possession.

Each day, plan your activities and review them to note what should be eliminated, delegated or elevated to give you the greatest opportunity to serve others and grow your wealth in life.

The world needs you to show up everyday to contribute your talents to helping others. It is only when we all find our purpose in this world and implement a means to using that purpose to help others that we truly are wealthy.  Mark Twain, one of my favorite authors, stated it well when he said, “The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.”  

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Change Your Philosophy About Money and Change Your Life

One of the greatest powers of wealth is your philosophy toward money. This year has been a challenge to many of us and you may have not met your savings goal or some other type of goal. However, our philosophy of life doesn’t change whichever way the wind blows economically or otherwise.

Think about your deepest convictions about life – personal, professional, marital, charitable, etc. Most likely these deeply rooted philosophical beliefs came from someone in your family or a close friend or an author of a book you read. My beliefs about money came to me early in life from my parents and, surprisingly perhaps, Jim Rohn and Zig Ziglar. Philosophy is what keeps you grounded during times like this that we are currently experiencing.

One of the greatest habits you can foster is the creation and continuance of your philosophy of money. Too many of us are chasing wealth and overlooking diamonds on the way. What I am referring to is the fact that money doesn’t define us in life but rather it affords us the opportunities we receive and the freedoms to enjoy them. Let’s analyze the thoughts of the billionaires of the United States, a very small group, and attempt to understand their philosophy about wealth. Wealthy individuals view money in long-term time horizons. There are no “get rich quick” schemes to lasting wealth. By diligently and consistently working toward their goals for success every day, the billionaires of our country amass great fortunes that last far beyond their lifetimes.

Another philosophy upheld by billionaires is their optimistic attitude. Do you believe that positive people attract opportunities? It certainly does! By maintaining an attitude of positivity and optimism, the people you meet during your day will notice your demeanor and reward you with a smile or kind gesture in return. This is another means of billionaires discovering the next great investment that will continue to grow their wealth.

The philosophy of “pay yourself first” is evidenced by the lifestyles of the ultra-rich. This approach to life is to invest your money toward your long-term goals first and then use the remainder for your current lifestyle. The key to balancing this philosophy is to clearly articulate and write down your goals. By focusing on the bigger future, you will not frivolously waste your resources today. One method you can demonstrate this philosophy is your current retirement account. Instead of instant gratification for a new vehicle or boat, be deliberate about funding your future and save for the asset you desire. To illustrate the opposite of this philosophy, many people will utilize debt to purchase their “toys” and when retirement or an emergency arises, they are ill prepared and sink further into debt.

Lastly, money is nothing more than a ticket to freedom. Your choices that are availed to you through your preparedness for life are considerable. Think about your freedom of choosing a place to live, the freedom to choose the type of car you drive, the freedom to support the charity you believe is making a difference, etc. These freedoms are critical to the state of happiness you enjoy in life.

During my speeches across the United States, I often state, “Money has never purchased happiness but it can lease joy on a long-term basis”. I am amazed this statement continues to confuse people by its simple inference. It’s Christmas and time to think about your goals for 2021. Give some thought to changing your philosophy about money and life. The rewards you will gain are impactful and world-changing. If you wish to learn more about goal setting and other philosophical approaches to life and money, go to www.compasscapitalmgt.com.

Wishing each of you a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Note: The “Invest in Yourself” column will not be published for the next two weeks. We will resume publication the week of January 4, 2021.)

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Thanksgiving – Wealth Is More Than Money!

It is that time of year when each of us should pause and reflect on the life we lead in the United States of America. While our nation is far from perfect, the freedoms, opportunities and rights we claim are superior to any other nation on the planet! I am often asked how I define “wealth”. Many people think it is about tangible goods (i.e., cars, houses, land, etc.) and intangible assets (i.e., investments, cash in the bank, etc.).

To me, to be wealthy simply means that I have the freedom to live my life in the manner I choose. An old friend, I will call “Bill”, was diagnosed with cancer and given a short time to live. He and I were talking and I thought I had known him pretty well. Boy, was I surprised with the words that came out of Bill’s mouth over the next thirty minutes!

By all outward appearances, Bill had a great life – money, land, houses, cars, boats, etc. When he started telling me about his life he quickly dismissed the value of his property, cars and investment accounts and began a story of loss in his life. His daughters had been estranged from him due to a misunderstanding when the girls were in the 20s. Now, with his daughters in their 40s and Bill dying of cancer, he realized the most valuable “asset” in his portfolio of wealth had been squandered many years ago. With tears in his eyes, I could see he was living a life of regret.

As I sat there intently listening, Bill continued his saga to define the difference between riches and true wealth. Although he had not worried or wanted for any material need during his life, his emotional void with his children had left him feeling that his life had been lived without meaning. I asked him a simple question, “Would you give it all away to spend some quality days with your daughters before your passing?” The biggest smile came upon his face and he nearly shouted, “You bet!”

After a discussion with Bill’s daughters, a meeting was established to reacquaint themselves. Bill and his daughters’ eyes were swollen with tears of joy as their family was reunited. Bill only lived a few more months but his daughters conveyed to me that those few months were the most happy he had been his entire life.

Remember, a thankful and kind heart is an asset that can’t be bought with material goods. I often define wealth to people as “those things in life that money can’t buy and death can’t take away.” Seek out the true “assets” in your life and enjoy a blessed Thanksgiving Day with family and friends!

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